答案
解:∵四边形ABCD是平行四边形,
∴AB∥DC,
∴∠DEA=∠EAB,∠CFB=∠FBA,
∵AE平分∠DAB交DC于E,BF平分∠ABC交DC于F,
∴∠DAE=∠EAB,∠CBF=∠FBA,
∴∠DEA=∠DAE,∠CFB=∠CBF,
∴AD=DE,FC=CB,
∵AD=CB=3cm,
∴DE=CF=3cm,
∴EF=DC-DE-CF=8cm-3cm-3cm=2cm.
解:∵四边形ABCD是平行四边形,
∴AB∥DC,
∴∠DEA=∠EAB,∠CFB=∠FBA,
∵AE平分∠DAB交DC于E,BF平分∠ABC交DC于F,
∴∠DAE=∠EAB,∠CBF=∠FBA,
∴∠DEA=∠DAE,∠CFB=∠CBF,
∴AD=DE,FC=CB,
∵AD=CB=3cm,
∴DE=CF=3cm,
∴EF=DC-DE-CF=8cm-3cm-3cm=2cm.